Why most women DON’T deserve GOOD MEN?

Have you ever been in a relationship whereby you think everything is going well? As you're prepared to go all out for your girlfriend then you figured that she's not the person she portrayed herself to be at the beginning of the relationship. That's when you realize that you've been played and made a fool, even though you've done things but being good to her. As a good man, you were able to keep her happy throughout the relationship until the last moment whereby she screwed you over. It can be either she cheated on you, even kept secrets, and constantly lied within the relationships. Also, she was even emotionally, physically, and financially abusive. It doesn't matter what sort of pain that she brought into your life, as there will never be a proper explanation to justify her actions. If you love someone, there's nothing that should lead to hurting your partner. 

Unfortunately, many women will say there are no good men left in this world, which isn't true, since most of them end up not treating them right once they found their prince charming. They just don’t know what to do with them. Remember that most good men know what they want from a woman and a relationship. Everything is clear to them in terms of an ideal partner. They’re not asking for much though, as they mostly prefer women that will know their place in the relationship and stop interfering with things that don’t concern them. Also, they value peace, loyalty, respect, unconditional love, kindness, and patience. A good man can do everything by the book, but still, get heartbroken. Also, most good men are in the friend zone, unfortunately, the majority of women will not bother to even dissect their friendzone list. They'll be surprised how many good men they'll found within their circle.

In most cases, when certain women are at their prime they don't even look at the good man's side, as they feel that they're boring, serious about life, and cannot have fun with them in life. That's when you find the same women chasing bad boys who will leave them heartaches, trauma, and all sort of unresolved issues. After the bad boys are done with these sorts of women that's when they kick them to the curb and move on to the next better women. Then the same hurt women will now seek a good man as they want to settle down and he must heal all her wounds and past traumas. This isn't fair on a good man as he deserves someone who will be able to have a loving relationship with but not try to play a saviour. Ideally, if a woman has been hurt, she needs to take her time and go through the healing process. Not jump from relationships to relationships since that is a recipe for disaster. Everyone deserves to be loved unconditionally, even broken women, however, they should fix their issues first, by cleaning up their dirty closet filled with past traumas. Also, they will have to know what to do with a good man, once they found their Mr Right. 

Nevertheless, if you're a toxic woman then you don't deserve a good man. The crazy thing is you will constantly complain about your love life, as it seems like nothing superb is coming out of it. Then you forget that you're a common denominator, that chooses the wrong men who will promise you the world but even give it to their loved ones and themselves. Empty promises will be the death of many relationships, hence you should take your time when you're thinking about dating. Get to know the person, if they're don't meet your standards, then move on. Keep it real, don't waste each other's time, date with a purpose in mind, which is getting married and starting a family (that's if you want children).

Don’t save her, she doesn’t want to be saved, bro. Stop wasting your valuable assets on her!

The bitter truth is that most men should stop trying to father or brother their partners. It’s a relationship, get that first, meaning you shouldn’t feel like you’re putting in all the work. Meanwhile, your girlfriend is on cruise control and not even worried about you nor the relationship. Every man needs to understand that love is a two-way street, what they do for their partners should be returned, presumably good things only. However, we cannot ignore that relationships have ups and downs. It’s our choice to remain in relationships that make or break us. Ideally, no one deserves to be in any relationship that compromises his happiness and sanity. Hence you will always hear people saying you should always exit toxic relationships. This means you should also know when love isn’t served in a relationship and stop hoping things will change.

Most men might turn a blind eye to certain expects of a relationship, which may leave them deep into trouble. This is visible when most men lower their standards to attract their significant other, which is playing with fire. Imagine taking allowing someone in your life that doesn’t fit the description of what you’re looking for in a relationship. It’s challenging for men to get good women that know what they want in life and relationship. Men like to keep it simple whenever they’re looking for a woman today, it’s usually outer beauty that attracts them to any person. Then what makes them stay in the relationship and even end up taking it to the next step, is inner beauty. The issue starts when most men overlook their needs in the relationship for the sake of their women. Meaning that they don’t care about their feelings and sacrifice every little thing in their lives to provide the life that their partners desire. 

The moment you feel like you’re doing a lot more than what you’re supposed to be doing, then it’s time to do some self-introspection and analyze your relationship. It doesn’t hurt to address this with your partner too. Otherwise, you might be playing yourself and that will lead to heartaches and unnecessary stress. Men should not try to save women in relationships, it doesn’t end well especially if they don’t want to be saved. As they’ll get blamed for everything that’s going wrong in the relationship. All that valuable time, energy, and money that you’re spending on her is a bad investment. Even if you try to knock some sense in her through meaningful conversations trying to uplift her but if she doesn’t want to listen then you’ve wasted your words. As she might turn good conversations into arguments. There’s no way you will get your return of investment when it comes to females that don’t know what they want in life. A lot of men fall into the trap of trying to look after their women, in a way that they forget to notice when they’re in relationships with themselves. 

Without any doubt, not every woman is the same, there are also good ones, which are rare to find. Hence most men that believe in love and marriage don’t hesitate when they meet one, they do everything necessary to tie her down. A household with loving partners breathes nothing but happiness. That turns a house into a home filled with an amazing family. After all, having a superb legacy is something that will always be cherished. Men don’t want an irresponsible woman who lacks self-love, accountability, and resilience to bring their children into this world. Who wants baby mama drama when you can have peace and love with a good woman.

Life is about choices: To vaccinate or not to vaccinate, whatever you choose, don’t judge others!

We’re living in a world that has evolved over the years and we keep on learning and unlearning every day. What has worked in the past, might not work today. It’s just a matter of understanding each situation and dissecting it. At the same time, you have to be reasonable and be willing to do your research. You cannot just take whatever the media, so-called experts or social media is feeding you. Remember that you’re your person, hence you’re entitled to your own opinions and life choices. If you believe in something that you’re willing to put your life on it, then kudos to you. However, it doesn’t mean that another person who doesn’t believe in what you’re willing to die for is wrong. We need to clarify that as human beings, that we’re unique and that needs to be respected. We shouldn’t enforce our belief system on other people, that’s hundred percent wrong.

This brings me to the different conversations that have turned into arguments or conflicts and even worse, hatred! The talks about the vaccine have become a trend, which is understandable since the world is facing the COVID-19 pandemic. It’s difficult to live life to the fullest without worrying about this deadly virus. Millions of people have succumbed to this unforgiving virus, may their souls rest in eternal peace. It’s always an unbearable feeling losing someone you love dearly in life, death isn’t something that anyone can get used to in this world, even though people die every day. This is something we hope can stop from happening, many people love living as they’ve got different dreams that they have to achieve. Even though the COVID-19 statistics are horrible to look at every time, but people have a choice to vaccinate or not take the jab. Hence no one should be forced into something that they don’t want in life.

If you’re vaccinated or not vaccinated, good for you. It doesn’t mean you should go around telling others to follow in your footsteps. Remember that it was your choice to get the jab or jabs in your body. Stop belittling other people that haven’t got vaccinated, it’s just not right and you know it. Everyone has their reasons behind not taking the vaccine, the same way you have your reasons for getting the jab. Sadly, social media have been filled with many vaccine influencers trying to sell a dream to the world. When it comes to the people that are against the vaccine, they shouldn’t question the choices of pro-vaxxers. However, they should respect their decisions of getting the jab and not try to spread conspiracy theories. We’re all human beings trying, by all means, to do what we feel is right for ourselves. At the end of the day, whether you choose to get the vaccine or not, there are always consequences that come with our decisions in life. No one deserves to be categorized in terms of being a pro-vaxxer or anti-vaxxer, it’s just ridiculous, to say the least. It has been clearly stated that even if you vaccinate you can still get COVID-19.

In life, we can always have conversations without disrespecting each other and the vaccine talks are something worth talking about nowadays. You can always get your point across easily, without insulting the intelligence of other people. The aim is to spread love, peace, kindness, and honesty. There’s no need to judge other people’s decisions, after all, we’re all here to learn from each other. If you’ve been vaccinated, please share your experience with others too.

Don’t believe any woman that says her ex-boyfriend has a small d*ck…

If you have social media, then you’ve probably seen a lot of posts about women trolling their ex-partners. It’s a relationship for a reason, which means what things will have to be discussed within the people involved. If things don’t go according to the way everyone plans, then there’s always professional help available. That’s if both partners want things to work out, after all, there are trials and tribulations within love. Bear in mind that it doesn’t involve any sort of abuse, that cannot be regarded as the ups and downs of a loving relationship. Let’s call it what it is, that’s just toxicity.

A trend of certain women talking about their ex-boyfriend’s genitals online has to be one of the worst things that they can do to the person that they claimed they once loved. Even worse when some so-called men entertain such women on social media. As they laugh and share their inhumane opinions within the comment section. Remember that as a man tables might turn tomorrow and it can be you be being dragged online. The “short d*ck” conversations mostly come out after the break-up, as for yourself why? You’ve probably seen posts like this on social media: “Your d*ck was small, hence I left you.” “I don’t talk with guys with tiny d*ck.” “There’s no d*ck print, you want me to starve.” All of this is done on purpose, just to belittle the man online. It’s just a low blow that ends up trending on social media since many people are attracted to negative things.

Also, the “short d*ck” posts shouldn’t be entertained, since most women can lie about it, even if it was long or big, she will still say it was tiny, just to troll you. Ask yourself this question, why didn’t she address this within the relationship and tried to seek help for her man? Why she had to use a public platform to share her personal life? Relationships are all about getting better together, it has to involve teamwork and problem-solving skills. It’s not just about loving your partner in good times and then making fun of him in bad times. The “short d*ck” posts shouldn’t be getting any attention from males unless they’re trying to school the women. As a woman, if you’ve tried everything to help your ex-boyfriend sort out his private part issues and nothing good came out of it. Then there’s no need to spread his business all over social media or anywhere for that matter. Just separate in peace and live your best lives. No need to talk and post about your ex-partner. It’s over, move on, no validation or joy comes out of disrespecting others.

You don’t have to react or share your opinion on things that doesn’t concern you

There are always things happening in this world, some are good and others are just horrible. However, it’s up to you what you do with the things you see, read, and even hear. At times we may experience things physically as human beings, and what matters after that is how we react to those things. It’s easier to point the figure at the next person, however, you forget about the role that you played in what has happened to you. Ideally, it’s always crucial that you protect your peace by not engaging in things or discussions that won’t grow you as a person tomorrow. At times you may lose and you find yourself in an awkward situation, then your next move will determine your faith. Before even making a decision you should look at all possible consequences of each step you take. We cannot only pay full attention to decisions and forget the possible results of our actions.

Yes, everyone here on earth has their own life and that’s fine. The issue begins when there are altercations and that’s when people’s true colours come out. How you speak and act tells a lot about you, hence you should try to be on your best behaviour. You don’t want to say or do something that you will later regret. Believe me, there’s nothing fun about living on regrets and wondering about “what if?”. All of that won’t help you in your life, anything that brings stress isn’t ideal for you. Taking care of your thoughts, body and words build you to be the best version of yourself. Remember that only you know where you want to be in the future, in terms of your career, health, family, friendship, finances, spirituality (if you believe in it), and even commitments.

Firstly, not everything that you see online is directed at you, if it was then it would have your name and surname attached to it. Hence you shouldn’t be offended by the things you see or read online. Even when you hear people talk about you behind your back, there’s nothing you can do about that, as they don’t have the nerves to say it straight to your face. All you’re doing is cultivating your environment, as you know that your circle will affect you in your future somehow. Ideally, you should be aware of who you associate yourself with in life. It’s okay to have friends, as long as they don’t force you to do what you don’t want. It’s crucial to be independent even when you’re with your peers and make your own decisions in life. Be ready to take full responsibility for your actions too. I know it’s easier said than done but it’s something that you have to work on every day. Holding yourself accountable for everything that happens to you will save you moving forward. As you will learn different ways of overcoming trials and tribulations.

At the end of the day, only you know what’s right for you, and remember that you don’t have to take in everything that you’re told. Just utilize what will work for you, and no one’s a master of life. We learn as we go and we also, acquire different knowledge from others as well, it doesn’t matter if they’re old or young. Without any doubt, minding your business will save your energy and time. The back and forth fighting and arguing won’t help anyone. You don’t want to mess with your health, just make sure you take good care of yourself. Remember that you only got one life, please make it count. Whatever you do, please make yourself proud.  

Monday Tendencies

When the alarm goes off on Monday morning, it’s like I’m still dreaming. The funny thing is that on the weekend, I tell myself that I will not even attempt to hit snooze on my phone. I will just wake up when it’s time to leave my bed and that will be according to the alarm. Even though I sleep early on Sundays, but my issue is that I wake up just after 01:00 am, which has become a habit that irritates me. After that I struggle to fall asleep again, then this messes up my sleeping pattern and my morning schedule. The crazy thing is that I then fall asleep after 04:00 am, which is 30 minutes before I start my day. This has made my Mondays a bit challenging, as I start my day a bit later than usual. When I’m awake between 01:00 to 04:00 am, I’m not even productive since I’m still in bed and at that time the blankets are warmer.

It’s even colder to leave the bed at that time since I sleep with my phone under my pillow. I feel that it’s convenient for me to do that as I can easily hear the alarm and press snooze too. Surely, this isn’t the right way to go about a day for anyone including myself. Somehow, I know I’m not the only one who goes through this kind of tricky morning schedule. I think I’m being considerate though, this cannot be a tricky schedule, it’s just horrible in my eyes. I don’t know about you but I have to find a way to stop it. Having a schedule that will make sure that I remain productive throughout the day, while I still have time for me will do wonders for me.

I cannot start my Mondays with snooze, that’s just not right at all. It’s a new week filled with amazing possibilities that will take me further in life. Then why should I be on the back foot and not be prepared for the great Monday that I have constantly been praying for since Sunday? It makes me wonder, why can’t I execute certain impressive ideas on my mind. Then again, I look at how I use my time and that will tell me a lot about myself. There’s no way that I can have bigger dreams but my work ethic doesn’t match my visions. I know many people will always say it’s easier said than done. Hence you can have the best plan on paper, but everything lies in execution.  There’s nothing wrong with pinpointing your mistakes and then rectifying them to be a better individual. I don’t have any issues with Monday or any other day for that matter. It’s just that I was noticing a strange pattern in how I do things lately, I can’t believe I’ve been hiding behind the winter season. I’ve found myself having to choose the bed on Mondays as if that will help me with my productivity. The main challenge lately has been leaving the bed earlier than I anticipated on Monday mornings. If I miss my alarm, then I’ll wake up super late and that’s not something that I love doing. I don’t like to rush things, unfortunately, when I’m late I have to be quick.

What I’ve learned is that I cannot have my cellphone in my bedroom, so that I will have to leave the bed every time the alarm goes off. Then I will have to tell myself that I cannot go back to bed because my day has started. Then I’ll have to work with my grumpy self in the early morning and get on with it. Over the years though, I’ll be back at this and laugh it off. At the moment I’m working on progress, soon I’ll get it right. The crazy thing is that I used to wake up early to prepare for school, now I’ve gone back to the awkward sleeping pattern which will end. Monday, thank you for being beautiful! I will conquer Mondays!

I've taken a long one-year hiatus from blogging and here's why

You know what they say, life happens. I've been reminiscing about making a come back to blogging for a while now. I've had a lot of time on my hands ever since I've lost my occupation, thanks to the Covid-19 pandemic. One thing I'm grateful for is that I'm still alive and I still have a shot at changing my life for the better. It has been challenging having to adjust to the new normal. I still struggle getting used to wearing a mask every time I'm in public and also, practising social distancing. It's a great challenge though since we've just entered into different waves within the country. 

I make sure that I wear my mask every time I'm out and out within this beautiful country called South Africa. Even though I've minimized my movements for my health. When it comes to hygiene, I didn't have an issue with constantly washing and sanitizing my hands. I have the portable sanitiser that I keep in my pocket. Amid Covid-19, I've learned to spend more time with my loved ones and practise more self-love. Before the pandemic, I was caught up with working and putting in extra shifts to get more money every month. I lost myself chasing money, I had no time to check up on my loved ones. I didn't even have time for myself, all I did was mostly being at work. I felt like I was part of the furniture since I was there six times a week and even seven days at some point. 

I failed at balancing my work and personal life. When the country went to the level 5 lockdown towards the end of March 2020, that's when I got exposed that I had nothing else to do rather than work. I even dumped the hobbies that I had just to focus on my occupation and provide for my family and myself. Who was going to pay the rent? Who was going to buy the food? Who was going to pay for all the utilities? I've taken up the role of being a sole provider at home and I had to do it all. When I've lost the job, that's when I felt like I lost my voice within myself and my family. What even made me more furious was that I lost my love for blogging too.

I can't believe that I've been away from blogging for about 14 months. That's just crazy and I've been constantly thinking about what I'll write about as I had writer's block. I think I've overcome it by posting this piece which is filled with emotions. I barely share what's on my mind since I usually dissect a topic or what's happening in the entertainment industry. Things will have to change now for the better, as I will have to share different thoughts on my mind in the hope it will touch someone's life out there. One thing I've realized since I've been away from blogging is that I love writing and I will do whatever it takes to become better at it. What's exciting is that I am now doing this on a full-time basis, and foresee nothing but success. I am open to collaborations with different people and brands. I'm looking forward to doing sponsored posts too and even writing services. Please do email: scarcitysa@gamil for any business inquiries.

I just want to grow this blog and hopefully, it becomes one of the best in the world. Let's go on a blogging journey together. I hope you enjoy your stay on The Blog That Rocks!

Monday.

Written By Sivuyile Tshalana. 


Monday.
It's a brand new day.
The start of better things.
The beginning of a productive week.
The alarm goes off in the morning.
Disturbing my sleep.
It's a matter of leaving my comfortable bed.
Then start my day.
My mind is playing tricks on me.
I don't know whether to press snooze or just wake up.
Waking up is a better option since my bed won't pay my bills.
It's time for me to achieve my goals.
And get me an income.

Monday. 
Another beautiful day full of blessings.
I need to put a smile on my face, get ready for the day ahead.
Extremely grateful to see you, my love, Monday.
It's another week full of productivity and fantastic opportunities.
You've come with nothing but success.
I have faith in you Monday.
I know you won't let me down.
I will accomplish everything I need and more.
It's all about me and you.
I'll make it a point that I make someone smile.

Monday. 
I see a lot of people complaining about you.
Blaming you for putting an end to their weekend.
They even call you names, they call you Blue Monday.
But you stand still and hold your fort.
Stating nobody will take you down.
You don't allow anyone to ruin your plans.
You don't allow anyone to ruin your day.
You just keep your focused within the proceedings of the day.
Despite everything, you're just marvellous to be part of a person's life.

Monday.
It's a day whereby people start new jobs.
Other's are going to interviews.
Meanwhile, other people are going around job hunting.
Certain individuals got laid off at their work and others got a promotion.
Monday you're just an eventful day.
All of the people might dislike you but I just love you.
Thank you for being brave and starting the week with a smile.

It's Going To Be Okay.

Written By Sivuyile Tshalana.



Life has taught you lessons that you never thought you will ever learn. We're all going through something, to others it's visible and certain individuals its inner scars. Even though you may feel alone at times when things don't go your way. We hope that this piece reminds you how far you've come and that there's someone who understands your pain.

It's Going To Be Okay.
You don't have a need nor urgency to wake up in the morning.
You just want to sleep and never wake up.
You cry day in and day out.
You procrastinate all day and lazy around.
You ask yourself all the times why this had to happen to me?
What did I do to deserve this unhealthy life?
You're not happy with yourself, your family, friends and your relationship.
You have anger issues and you take it out on innocent people.
Truth be told, you just feel like giving up in life.
You constantly blame everyone in your life, for all that has caused your life feel like it's a standstill.
To make things worse you like to compare your life with other people. You feel cheated as all your friends and school mates have graduated.
They own businesses, others are doing their dream jobs and they have all the luxuries that you can only dream of.
They post on social media about their accomplishments.

It's Going To Be Okay.
You barely afford to even buy data and you're behind on your dreams and your vision.
You feel like the black sheep of the family.
You feel worthless.
You can't even get money to pay for your studies.
You owe other people money.
Your family calls you a loser.
Since you don't contribute to the family financially.
You don't have a voice in family gatherings.
You constantly told what to do with your life and how to do it?
No-one has sat down with you and asked you what do you want in life? What are your goals?
No-one cares if you're alive, hurting or even happy.
You just stuck in a life that you not proud of.
Every little move you're doing trying to change your life, something always goes wrong or you end up not getting the desired outcome.

It's Going To Be Okay.
At the moment you're homeless, you don't even have proper clothes on and you're literary dying of starvation.
People laugh at you as you beg on the streets.
You have a sickness that's killing you day by day and you ashamed to tell anyone as they might leave you alone.
Your doctor just told you that you don't have a lot of years to live in this life.
You're hiding a secret from your loved ones.
You're unemployed and you've tried by all means to seek work opportunities but nothing is coming up.
You just lost a job opportunity because you didn't have money to even travel to the interview.
Some interviews you go to you get rejected because of your ethnic group. Maybe you didn't want to sleep your way to the job.
You get rejected in a workplace because of your morals, beliefs and cultural practices.
Your neighbours hate you and you have no idea the reasons behind their motives.
You get death threats.

It's Going To Be Okay.
You just lost your loved one.
You feel helpless, hopeless and fearful.
Covid19 has ruined your life.
Your partner cheated on you.
You're going through a divorce.
Your children abandoned you.
You're a child of rape.
Your parents gave away for adoption and you now looking for your real parents.
You have abused your whole life by people you know and strangers.
You have been raped.
You just got retrenched by your employers.
Your girlfriend is pregnant, but you not ready to be a parent.
You want her to do abortion.
You want to be a parent, unfortunately, you're infertile.
You're hanging in a job you hate with your whole life but you doing it because it pays the bills.
You underestimate your own goals and dreams.
You lack self-confidence, self-love and self-esteem.

It's Going To Be Okay.
You despise life and everything that's living and walking on it.
You live to inflict pain on other people since you're bleeding inside. You've been broken many times and you find it necessary to make other people's lives a living hell.
You got all the money in the world, but you regret every decision you've to get it as it was illegal.
Some people are crying because of you. They wish you nothing but death as you've taken what they valued the most in their lives.
You just lost your house, car and you've filed for bankruptcy.
You've failed more than you've achieved.

Always remember that what you're going through isn't permanent. It's a phase in your life that you have to go through. As painful as it may feel but remember joy comes after pain. Don't allow yourself to be comfortable in pain but keep on finding better ways of moving forward. It's not easy to forgive and forget, but it's possible. You don't want to live your life in misery and regrets. Wondering what if you did something differently, now is the time to do it. All that matters is taking that step forward in the right direction. Also, get professional help if you can't handle the pain anymore. Don't inflict more pain on yourself. Just remember it's going to be okay. You may not see that now but in no time you will see it. Don't you ever give up! Don't give up today or tomorrow. Stay extra woke.

It's going to be okay.
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Africa is one of the most beautiful continents in the world. Full of amazing people, delicious food, wonderful places, incredible cultures and a talented continent. It amazes me that it has been ignored by the rest of the world for its importance. Let's start within the continent itself though, the fact that we've allowed different overseas countries to separate us has become questionable. If you look at it we have less Black-owned business, we export almost everything that we consume within the continent and some of us has made okay to be second best. We have all the resources to make Africa great and have an enormous economy that is controlled by ourselves.

The funniest thing is the perception of fear given life by prying eyes who seek to gain, the oldest strategy conquer and divide has worked so well in Africa. So well that the narrative of the conquerors has us not defending a word. I've come to hate so hard for it is not true we do not fear each other nor our black skin or hate each other. Xenophobia in the English dictionary means one scared of his or her race. That is laughable as the Germans feared the Jews yet it's not termed as Xenophobic, Russia and America have been at it since the 18th century, China and Japan had a go at each other. It comes down to intelligence then which is a Black man you don't have the mental capacity to wage wars, colonize or any tangible thing. Is there any claim within your existence that you have to this world your history, your present regrettably your future. There's nothing to claim it's always been ours. We're a peaceful godlike breed race there's no need to fight each other but let's give African Nations the respect due to them. For instance, a task for the authorities sort through that it was Ethiopian, Nigerian and South African nationalists cause if we don't we're indirectly allowing profane terms. Thing is this is the same as Apartheid segregating and grouping us it's still slavery to terms given by other nationalists to Nigerian their narrative then it's transference onto the next African generation.

We need to realise that we don't need other countries to divide us anymore. What has occurred on this continent is enough. We cannot allow the same mentality of slavery moving forward. If we cannot fix ourselves, who will? Also, it's critical that we also have a look at the environment around us. Just figure out how can we then tweak certain things for Africans to believe that they're worth it. Being Black isn't a sign, it's a blessing. Just explore your inner Africanism, get to know other fellow brothers and sisters within the continent. We need to stop thinking that Africans should only remain in their country of birth. If they move they're re regarded as foreigners. How can you become a foreigner in your continent? The hatred that is shown towards as Africans is purely uncalled for and needs to end. We need to make peace with the fact we're one and we want nothing but the best for our continent. Although we were brainwashed by certain overseas countries into believing that were inferior and that we will never be a continent that the whole talks about when it comes to wealth and success.

Even if you switched on the news in overseas countries, all they know about Africa is that it's a poor continent, with high crime, fertility, corruption and death rate. With low life expectancy, no infrastructure and a terrible education system. Most non-Africans that have never been to Africa think that it's a jungle with wild animals moving all over the place. They're sold the wrong side of Africa by their news channels and also our channels don't do justice either as scandals sell more in media. We can sit around, debate the whole day but the truth of the matter is we need to stop talking about the things we cannot change which is the past. It's up to us as Africans to then show the world how our wonderful and resourceful is our continent.

We need to bring back the spirit of humanity, tolerance, respect, peace and love. Together as Africans, we can achieve the greater things for our continent and it's a matter of putting our differences aside. Then coming up with more solutions than creating more problems. Giving rise to Black children seeing and treating each other differently because of hate given life to and appealing emotionally not logically. Those are my brothers and sisters, nobody got time for that are we in a competition which is a better country or whose the smartest or fastest hell, it's healthy. Let's keep falling in love and improving and unlocking our intelligence Azania. Let's focus on ourselves, bettering our skills and knowledge than focusing on the enemy. When we're fully content with ourselves and the continent, the enemy will do us no harm.

Rise Africa Rise!!!