I
just moved into this new neighborhood, I didn't know what to expect but so far
so good as I'm really enjoying living here. As I'm not known by the people in
this community and I'm planning to keep it that way. Sometimes when you known
in an area you attracts a lot of bad company around you. Some people come into
your live if they stand something to gain. Its very hard to know who are real
friends or fake friends when you known in the community, because you just enjoy
getting attention from many people. It also helps knowing why you moved into a
certain area.
Otherwise
you going to be caught in the cross fire and you wouldn't know how to get
yourself out of it as you'd be alone. All your so called friends would be
nowhere to be seen and you have to sort out the mess they've put you in - face
the problems on your own. It helps though now that I'm an introvert since I've
changed environments. I was really tired where I used to live, because of people
I used to live with as they were drunkards. Every little money they got they
spent it on alcohol, parties and women. Come Monday morning they begging money
for transport fare in order to go to work. Having fun with limitations is good
and you don't have to have fun every week even if you don't have money. There
are far more important things then having fun every week. Remember that
nowadays fun needs money in order to unlock their real fun. Hence the club's,
pubs and restaurants that sell alcohol won't go extinct, because some countries spends more money on alcohol then they do on the important things that families
need.
The
looks, and questions you get when you say you don't drink alcohol and you
hardly go to parties. Its like our environments are all about partying it all
up everyday and if you not into that kind of fun, you're an outsider and you
get excluded by some of the community members. People can have fun without
alcohol, its very possible but some people put fun and alcohol together. At the
same time others don't even know their drinking limit, they drink alot as long
as they see alcohol in from of them and the worst part is they fight
afterwards. They can end up dead, because they don't know what they're doing as
they're under the influence of alcohol as others even drive when they're drunk.
Community members lost their lives on the roads each day, because of drunkards
- people who can't think properly and do the right thing that will not put
their lives and other people's lives in danger. Certain people need to stop
sending young children to buy them alcohol over the counter in alcohol stores. Its
really a bad trend that I see in every community that I got to or visit. The
children grow up knowing that its okay to drink and that drinking is cool. Remember
that the children learn from us - whether we doing good or bad and they practice it
later on in their lives. The laws around alcohol needs to be more tighten up.
I'm
not against alcohol or community tendencies, all I care about is for people to
be safe and live to see the next day. Many people need to stop living for the
weekends, like life starts and ends on weekends. There's more to life then
drinking alcohol and spending time with community members that act like they
care about you but all they want is gravy from you. When there's no gravy, they
leave you like they've never met you or existed. It is crucial to cultivate
your environment that you living in and don't do what they're all doing. Be
different and chase your dreams and visions. You only got one life and live it
with a purpose.
