You don’t have to react or share your opinion on things that doesn’t concern you

There are always things happening in this world, some are good and others are just horrible. However, it’s up to you what you do with the things you see, read, and even hear. At times we may experience things physically as human beings, and what matters after that is how we react to those things. It’s easier to point the figure at the next person, however, you forget about the role that you played in what has happened to you. Ideally, it’s always crucial that you protect your peace by not engaging in things or discussions that won’t grow you as a person tomorrow. At times you may lose and you find yourself in an awkward situation, then your next move will determine your faith. Before even making a decision you should look at all possible consequences of each step you take. We cannot only pay full attention to decisions and forget the possible results of our actions.

Yes, everyone here on earth has their own life and that’s fine. The issue begins when there are altercations and that’s when people’s true colours come out. How you speak and act tells a lot about you, hence you should try to be on your best behaviour. You don’t want to say or do something that you will later regret. Believe me, there’s nothing fun about living on regrets and wondering about “what if?”. All of that won’t help you in your life, anything that brings stress isn’t ideal for you. Taking care of your thoughts, body and words build you to be the best version of yourself. Remember that only you know where you want to be in the future, in terms of your career, health, family, friendship, finances, spirituality (if you believe in it), and even commitments.

Firstly, not everything that you see online is directed at you, if it was then it would have your name and surname attached to it. Hence you shouldn’t be offended by the things you see or read online. Even when you hear people talk about you behind your back, there’s nothing you can do about that, as they don’t have the nerves to say it straight to your face. All you’re doing is cultivating your environment, as you know that your circle will affect you in your future somehow. Ideally, you should be aware of who you associate yourself with in life. It’s okay to have friends, as long as they don’t force you to do what you don’t want. It’s crucial to be independent even when you’re with your peers and make your own decisions in life. Be ready to take full responsibility for your actions too. I know it’s easier said than done but it’s something that you have to work on every day. Holding yourself accountable for everything that happens to you will save you moving forward. As you will learn different ways of overcoming trials and tribulations.

At the end of the day, only you know what’s right for you, and remember that you don’t have to take in everything that you’re told. Just utilize what will work for you, and no one’s a master of life. We learn as we go and we also, acquire different knowledge from others as well, it doesn’t matter if they’re old or young. Without any doubt, minding your business will save your energy and time. The back and forth fighting and arguing won’t help anyone. You don’t want to mess with your health, just make sure you take good care of yourself. Remember that you only got one life, please make it count. Whatever you do, please make yourself proud.