Love Is Real.

Written By Sivuyile Tshalana.

Let me start by thanking God for creating you. 

He took his time when creating you, because you're imperfectly perfect to me. I may not know much about you, but every time we speak its  always amazing. Ever since I met you, I feel like I've known you for years. You're so welcoming and a wonderful woman. I treasure everything about you close to my heart. A simple greeting like Hello, How are you? Just makes me see that there are really finer things in life and you definitely at the top of everything. One look at you my heart starts beating faster and I get goosebumps.  You make me starter when I talk to you as I can't find the correct words in my vocabulary to describe how I feel about you. I let you do the talking as I just love watching you talk, it amazes me how your lips move and how you say certain words. You got that woman posture about you. When you've arrived, I always notice as you got that explainable aura about you. 

You got that million dollar smile. I truly appreciate you as a woman and I enjoy your company even though I feel its limited at times. You leave me wanting more of you. Whenever I look I see you, as I am constantly thinking about you. 

The world should stand still and appreciate your presence. You're just an all round happier person and it rubs of people. YOU'RE A BEAUTIFUL, TOLERANT, AMBITIOUS AND LOVING WOMAN.

You're like that fresh air that everybody needs everyday to just live.

Your name symbolizes life. You're a woman and a proper future leader. The world is yours and utilize it to make something out of that you would be proud of each day.

At the end though no words can ever describe you and my love for you.

When its all said and done I love you unconditionally.

Celebrities.

Written By Sivuyile Tshalana.

When many people look at celebrities, they are seen as good versions of perfect people. Its like they don't make mistakes and if they do make mistakes they're judged harshly. Let's be real now, everyone make mistakes and there's no need for people penalize celebrities for their mistakes. People must remember that no-one is perfect as we're faced with a lot of challenges on a daily basis.

Celebrities are normal people that live extraordinarily lives, because of their occupations. They also have families to look after, legacies to build and pave ways for generations after generations. There's no need for many people to crucify celebrities for living their lives to the fullest. Many celebrities got into drugs and die, because of the stress that certain people within our communities put them under. Being a celebrity is tiring with all the hours you have to put in, especially doing back-to-back interviews, photo shoots, acting, singing, writing and also balancing that with your family time as well as self love. Celebrities have to sacrifice a lot of things everyday so that they can put more effort to their work. They sacrifice family time, going out, friendships and even their happiness at times to make that their fans get what they want out of them.

Some celebrities, usually say they are tired of being celebrities as they didn't sign up to be treated as perfect people and to receive so much attention for everything they do. Other celebrities feel that they don't have a private life, even though they don't like sharing everything they do with the world and they actually want to own their lives. Rather than the public stating how they should live their lives and with whom. The media is on the celebrities lives everyday, watching their moves and most of the things that they publish are mostly negative things about celebrities. This then becomes are big problem as celebrities are also people with feelings and families. Before even the media  print anything about celebrities, there should be a thorough investigations and celebrities should be made known of such investigations.

Celebrities are people, and they need love and respect like any other human being on this earth. We cannot go around causing conflicts in celebrities lives through rumors. We forget that whatever made them famous put food on their tables and uplift their standards of living. Our celebrities need to be loved unconditionally  and actually be allowed to live private lives outside their work. Let's put more respect on celebrities names.

Blog Story: Behind The Artist Part 1 - @Techniq_SA

Written By Sivuyile Tshalana.

Calvin Segabutle, famously known as Techniq SA (on the picture above) is a young rapper from South Africa in Limpopo. He was born in S.T Hospital, Glen Cowie on the 29th of November 2000 and grew up in Phokoane. Techniq SA went to Leshalabe Primary School, where he did his Grade R to Grade 6, then went to Moriti High School and that's where he's currently doing his matric this year. Techniq SA is from a disadvantaged family where his parents are unemployed, but do their best to look after their him and his older sister Boitumelo through part time occupations or help from other people.

Techniq SA is a natural born rapper who is hungry for a break through in the South African music industry and beyond. He grew up listening to the likes of Hospin, Proverb, J Cole and Nas. That's where he gets most of his inspiration from and also he's inspired by South Africa as whole as well as other other nations. Techniq SA has always been a musical person, even way back in his childhood and his passion for music grew within him as time went by during the years. When he was younger, all he could hear most of the times at night was music notes. Nowadays he's a walking instrument that is continuously playing his favourite notes. Techniq SA felt that this musical journey has been like a calling for him. After all it is his first love. He's been playing music loud since he was ten years old and he's been writing rhymes when he was thirteen years old.

"I was young and dumb, chasing paper (money) so I had to take some time off to hustle in the streets, now I am back and I am hungrier than before. I am here to stay as I am ready to treat the music industry with love and respect. Everyday struggle, motivates me to hustle harder and stay consistent throughout my craft. I do what I do to motivate and inspire other people so that they can see its possible to follow your dreams despite your disadvantaged background. I have been through a lot in my life and I have a lot to say within my music.", said Techniq SA.

He also added that he is willing to work with other people in the music industry and beyond. Techniq SA doesn't box himself, he can work with different musicians across many different genres. He raps with passion and love as he feels its his God given talent to share with the world. Techniq SA feels he's Hip Hop, as they both have that unconditional love relationship between each other.

Techniq SA favourite quote: "The rapper is more like a Galaxy, he never disappoints on every joint he jumps on."

Relationships Deal Breakers For Men: Part 2.

Written By Sivuyile Tshalana.

Men do not have many relationship deal breakers, like women do and some of the deal breakers are the same for both genders. Men can have certain characteristics they would like in their ideal relationship and in their minds but end up not following it only because men are usually not fussy about ticking each and every box on their preference list. Many men fall in love with the physical appearances of their partners (also known as outer beauty), before they even get to know their partners better in terms of their inner beauty (personality). It is understandable though, because men are the ones who approach their partners first, if they have been rejected a lot by other people that they fell for but they declined them, then many men end up settling for less and not following their ideal partners criteria. Most men are actually pressured into relationships, if they are single their peers pick on them and make them feel like something is wrong with them and that they are not manly enough to be regarded as men in their societies. So some men enter into relationships not ready mentally, psychologically, emotionally and spiritually which leads to deal breakers within their relationships.

These are relationships deal breakers for men in no particular order. Poor sex or no sex at all, whereby men are not satisfied in the bedroom when it comes to sexual activities or the sex life within the relationship is missing in action (M.I.A). Lack of communication, wisdom and knowledge within the relationship, partners do not check-in with each other in terms of talking with one another. Lack of vision and commitment, whereby their partner do not have dreams about their future together, they live for the moment and do not stick to their words. Misunderstandings, getting the wrong ideas or impressions about their partner. Long distance relationship, when their partner does not stay where they stay and they hardly see their partner. Cheating, unhygienic and an untrustworthy partner. Lack of transparency, whereby they are not able to see through their partner. Seeing other people as better or have what their partner does not have, basically wanting someone they do not have which is plain greediness and lust. Boredom, some men feel that knowing they partner well can be boring, because they know their partner’s routines that they do everyday and others feel their partner becomes a snob, hence they seek for a new challenge.

One of the relationships deal breakers for men is the decisions that was made before they met their partner. Like meeting people that they liked but cannot be with them, because of different paths that they chose, culture and religion. For example some men cannot date someone who have more children then they do, especially if it is from their previous relationships and others do not even date people who have children already. Hence decisions that their partner makes or has made can be a relationship deal breaker for men. One way or the other, men has came across such deal breakers and it costed them their relationships going forward. Joy Qholosha summed it up in one sentence by saying, “if you do not communicate, you end up not trusting your partner and that leads to lack of sex”.

Relationship deal breakers are something that can be avoided so that your relationship can last longer. It is a two way street, both partners need to be on the same page and relationships are not something that just happens, it is a lot of hard work everyday and you choose to be with your partner each day. You cannot be comfortable within the relationship because it is so unpredictable especially when you are in love you live in the moment, but most people do not want to believe that, it is up to them and their partner to make their moments last forever for the both of them. At the end they will rip the rewards of getting a life partner and love wins everyday.

Corporal Punishment.

Written By Sivuyile Tshalana.

In many schools the learners do as they please, because they know that they have more power than the teachers as the law is by their side. The learners mis-use their rights in a way that it always benefit them whatever situation they face at school. Which means the teachers are not really protected by the law like learners are protected. This becomes a big problem, because the learners feel they are more superior than the teachers and will forever look down on them going forward.

The school environment has became a playground for learners to do whatever they want and get away with it. The learners carry guns and knifes whereby they shoot or stab their fellow school mates and their teachers or just cause critical injuries. While other learners smoke weed, cigarettes and other drugs at school, hence their brains become disrupted and they do a lot of things that they will later on regret. Some learners fight with their school mates or their teachers at school. A lot of learners and teachers have lost their lives at schools, where they suppose to educated or educate, and enjoy their jobs and build better lives. Nowadays schools have turned into a terrible environment with a lot of chaos and drama taking place within it. Many teachers, and learners fear for their lives every time they enter the school’s premises, and they always hope and pray that nothing bad happens to them. It is a sad truth that the government is also to blame for such violent learners at schools, because of banning of corporal punishment. In households the children become parents and parents become children, that is how our societies have became ever since the government gave the children more rights. Many parents cannot even discipline their children, because if they do they will be arrested as long as their children open a case against them. The parents are suppose to be the first teachers in the children’s lives before even sending their child to school. If learners are so corrupt how are the teachers going to help build future leaders of our country and if this keeps on happening there will be hardly any hope of our country having highly educated and successful human beings.

All of this nonsense can be stopped if the government brings back corporal punishment and proper discipline will prevail. The learners will learn to behave and carry themselves in a good manner like any learner should and also become good role models going forward. The teachers will be more in charged of the schools environment and all will be well at schools within our country. 

A Place That Is Special.

Written By Sivuyile Tshalana.

It does not matter who you are and where you coming from but more often than not a place that is special is always at home. You can travel the world, stay in a foreign country, live your expensive lifestyle in your big house, and enjoy your bachelor life and freedom but there is no place like home. Hence it is always important to touch base with your family at home and enjoy each other's company's while sharing their lives that they acquired while away from each other.

A home offers you some sort of warmth, unconditional love and major support from family members. A wise man once said, “home is where the heart is”. This means people can live their ideal life outside of their homes but there will always be welcomed at home, because they make part of the home. That is why you get people that go back home if things do not go their way and the world has turned it’s back on them. While others move back home, because their finances are not looking good and they want to save for a better future. Hence a home is an important thing to have, love and cherish it because there is nothing like it. At each home you get different personalities that play their own roles in making a house a home. Also the most amazing home cooked meals and the greatest family stories that goes along with it on the dinner table. The sense of security and advice many people get when they are at home, because they are with people that want nothing but the best for them. The values, ethics and morals of life people learn from their homes which equipt them for the world. People also get to know more about their cultures and traditions as they are practiced on a regular basis. People must know where they come from, in order to know where they are going, and it all starts at home with the parents teachings and knowledge that they share with their children. A home is also a special place, because people get to spend time with their childhood friends, play indigenous games, spend a lot of time with things that have sentimental values and also enjoy the company of their neighbours.

In this world we see how many people struggle that do not have homes, because they lack some kind of family structure and support that helps them see the world in a different perspective. A home is an important thing for any family to have in order to grow together to achieve their futuristic dreams as a family.

African Leader.

Written By Sivuyile Tshalana.

According to the idea of transformation leadership, an effective leader is a person who creates an inspiring vision of the future, motivates and inspires people to engage and manages delivery of that vision. That is the caliber of an African leader I aspire to be. In order for a country/continent to move forward and prosper in its mandate. The leader of that country/continent has to consider providing a greater core of financial development and transformation. This study looks at providing and maintaining financial development of the country and how I plan to maintain it by involving different stakeholders and the role each of them will play.

If I was an African leader I would finance development and transformation in various ways which will aim to take our continent to greater heights. As an African leader, I would lead by example in a way that I would take some of my own personal savings or salary to help finance development and transformation. I would be an African leader that gives a new brave meaning to ‘walk it and talk it’, as I love to see a lot of financial development and transformation take place to benefit people and make the world a better place to live in. I would also work hand-in-hand with celebrities, political parties and major business organizations to gather donations that will help boost the financing of development and transformation within the country/continent. Creating a lot of hype will only make people more interested in the financial development, and transformation and that will be one of my secret weapons to make my dreams come true of helping people.

Just to add on the financial of development and transformation, I would introduce a rule whereby all business must add development and transformation finances in their mandates. This will be their other from of giving back to their people. On top of that, there would be tax charged for both the employees and employers which will have a huge role on financial development and transformation. The businesses and working class plays a critical role in the economy and a country/continent itself as it provides people with money to look after their needs and wants. Financing development and transformation should be part of the people’s lives, because whatever is being developed and transformed will benefit the people one way or another and the generations to follow.

A lot of money is spent on politicians by the government, so I would introduce a rule for all the government employees to cut down their lavage lifestyle (expensive government cars, houses, credit cards, designer clothing and private jets). Politicians cannot have all these privileges while other people are suffering. I would also introduce financial development and transformation learnerships and internships. The money saved from politicians would help me finance development and transformation. All the money put out will be tracked to see if it is really doing what it supposed to do. A feedback report will be broadcasted for everyone to see and hear about where their money went. I would make sure that I work with other continents/countries who share the same common goal as me. I would also ask and seek for help from other countries who have walked the same road and have succeeded and let the other leaders mentor me as I achieve financing development and transformation.

Since social media is bigger nowadays, I would use that platform to reach other people across the world to buy in my ideas of financing development and transformation. I would host conferences and seminars to get more and more people involved in such wonderful projects to uplift the standard of living of on the continents, as well as getting the communities in the act of doing good deeds for each other. Getting the future leaders involved at the schools and tertiary institutes to be part of the movement towards change and talking it in the right direction. Learners are the future, so it is imperative that they participate in such fantastic ideas going forward.

Collectively as human beings on this earth, if we can work together, we can be a force to be reckoned with and we got a lot to do in this world. Financing development and transformation is a superb way to start. If I was an African leader I would make it a point, by all means necessary to finance development and transformation, it is possible and it begins with me and you.

To Everyone Reading This.

Written By Sivuyile Tshalana.

You maybe going through a rough patch in your life.
Maybe you just lost a close family member or friend.
Maybe you just lost all your money and you currently broke.
You could be poor and you do not know where is the next meal going to come from.
Possibly you just lost your house and car, because you could not pay your loans as you are stuck in debts and you feeling there is no way out.
You could be in jail for something you did not do and you were just at the wrong place at a wrong time.

You could be prosecuted for breaking the law of your country.
Maybe you are currently unemployed.
You could be a graduate with a lot of unpaid fees.
Possibly your loved ones or you are currently sick and it seems like you or they might be leaving this world anytime soon.
Maybe you are working in a hectic work environment, which has caused you a lot of stress in your life and every time you have to go to work you drag yourself to work.
Maybe you are doing a job that pays less and you living from hand-to-mouth each month and that frustrates you all the times.
Possibly you stuck on drugs and all you worry about is your next fix each day and where it is going to come from.

You maybe going through a divorce and you are fighting for the custody of your children.
You maybe going through a hectic or abusive relationship.
Maybe at school, you not doing well.
Maybe you want to commit suicide, because of certain issues that you facing in your life.
Maybe you got big dreams but you do not know how to go about achieving them.
Possibly you procrastinate a lot when it comes to getting things done.
Maybe you are full of hatred, and jealousy in your heart and you take it out on other people and make their lives a living hell.
You could be suffering from a low self-esteem and lack confidence.
Maybe you have some sort of disability.
Maybe you have a lot of phobias in your life.
Possibly you just got raped or you were raped before in your life and you keep on getting flashbacks of the rape.

Maybe you are a womanizer.
Maybe you are a lady that cannot date one partner and you currently dating multiple partners.
Maybe you are gay, you just came out of the closet and many people including your family members do not want to accept you.
Currently you have a talent, people do not believe in it, because they always felt you were never good enough and now you want to let go of your talent.
Maybe you have been bullied at school by fellow school mates.
Maybe you were always discriminated about the way you talk, the way you look, dress, your race and how you carry yourself in general.
Maybe you always gossiping about other people.
Maybe you have a negative mindset.

Always remember that the current situation that you are facing does not determine your future and what does not kill you makes you stronger. We all have to go through somethings in life in order to achieve our goals and visions. You are never alone and many people have been through what you going through, and they overcame the odds to write their names in history and became architects of their own lives. Make the right decisions that will contribute to a greater future. Do not forget to pray, always work harder, and smarter and never give up on your future. A lot of people go through terrible different challenges in their lives, but it is part of life and you just have to get up again and keep moving. At the end of the day, it does not matter how often you fall but what matters is how often you get up and try again.

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Dear Women: Happy Women's Month.

Written By Sivuyile Tshalana.

You're our great grandmothers.
You're our grandmothers.
You're our mothers.
You're our step-mothers.
You're our aunts.
You're our sisters.
You're our daughters.

You're our role models.

You're our icons.
You're our leaders.
You're the strength of our country.
You're the roots of our communities.
You're the definition of unconditional love.
You're the backbone and a whole lot more in our families.
You're the definition of true beauty (inner and outer beauty).

You're enough.

You're phenomenal.
You're everything and more.
You're the definition of success and wealth.
You're not a punching bag for anyone.
Don't forget to respect, love and cherish yourself as well as other people.
You matter and Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Put yourself first.
Set your priorities accordingly.
Don't settle for less.

We love, and respect women and hopefully the whole world can join the movement of putting respect on women's names. Women need to carry on doing the most amazing work in the world and continue growing other people as well as each other. Women's work won't go unnoticed but they have to keep on keeping on in life. Conquer every challenge they come across in life and also take failure as a stepping stone to greater heights. Women can achieve their dreams and visions as long as they work harder, smarter and very consistent in their work. Don't forget to fix your crown and keep slaying towards your ideal life as well as your throne. Remember to use your talent, and power unapologetically and wisely. The world is your stage.
HAPPY WOMEN'S MONTH!!!